Dad and Me I thought of this post last week as we went through the loss of my father. All the sentiments I had on behalf of friends who'd lost loved ones, I suddenly felt strongly for myself. We knew Dad wasn't long for this world, but it hasn't made his death any easier. Strangely, the separation of death reminds me how greatly God loves me. I hope you find His love in your loss as well. Duped by Design August, 2011 I've had my fill of funerals lately. Ready or not, impending or immediate, death is not a kind caller. It always asks too much, takes too much, leaves too much sorrow and takes too long to recover. Death has no desire to bargain or befriend - he is an unruly rapist of our equilibrium. In the past month I lost an uncle to cancer and a young friend to a sudden heart attack. One was ready, one was not. One was imminent, one was unexpected. Neither death was fair. Both goodbyes were hopeful, but no less painful. I'm not always o